Read this guide for guys on how to pleasure a woman using fingers and send the link to your gentleman caller and here for how to pleasure a woman using your mouth.
School every gentleman caller you have on how to touch you, so every girl he ever touches after you can thank you for it. Once you get a bit older, you will meet men whose previous girlfriends have never taught them how to touch them. Always leave someone better off than you found them — always. Forget the awkwardness — it comes with the territory. Sex is weird, awkward and can be utterly hilarious, so embrace the awkward and teach each other how to be great lovers.
Consider it one of your many contributions to the world. You could end up one of those girls always faking it because you were too scared to speak up.
He is fingering you because it is supposed to make you feel good, not because he likes it. There are two ways to find out what you like: touch yourself, and get someone else — under direction — to touch you.
Be the student and the teacher and learn about the human body, remembering that the human body is complicated, sex is complicated, and above all else, it is supposed to be fun and feel good. Chlamydia, for example, commonly causes spotting between periods. Rarely, a cut inside your vagina may need medical attention from your doctor.
You may need medication to help the scratch or tear heal and reduce your risk for an infection. This way, the scratch or tear has time to heal. If you begin bleeding after being fingered and you experience pain, discomfort, or itching in the days immediately following the activity, make an appointment to see your doctor. These symptoms may also be a sign of another condition, such as an STI. The risk of getting or transmitting any STI while being fingered is low. However, you can take steps to reduce both your risk for infection and your risk of bleeding.
Ask your partner to wash their hands before engaging in this activity. They can then cover their hands with a condom or disposable glove. This reduces the chance of bacteria from their hands or under their fingernails getting into a cut or scratch and developing into an infection. Shop for condoms and disposable gloves. Likewise, ask your partner to cut or trim their nails before fingering you.
Long nails can easily cut or poke the sensitive skin of your vagina. Not only will that be uncomfortable, it may cause scratches that bleed. Sexual foreplay helps women produce natural lubrication, but this takes some time. If you experience vaginal dryness while being fingered, ask your partner to use a water-based lube.
This will reduce friction and lower your chances of being cut. Shop for water-based lubricant. If you are uncomfortable while being fingered, ask your partner to stop. Forceful fingering may be painful. Guha explains, so bust out the hand soap and emery boards. Next, make sure there is adequate lubrication, whether natural or supplied from a bottle, to further prevent potential injuries and ensure everything is as comfortable as possible. Guha, so be generous. Felice Gersh, M.
This article was originally published on July 11, Updated: April 3, Originally Published: July 11,
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